Feelings Reflection Sheet for SEND, Outdoor Learning and Emotional Regulation
Looking for a simple feelings reflection sheet to help children talk about emotions, behaviour, regulation and outdoor learning? This Feelings Reflection Sheet supports teachers, teaching assistants, SENDCos and nurture staff to help children notice how they feel, what happened and what might help next time. Are you new to Outdoor Learning? Start by reading our Beginners Guide to Outdoor Learning for SEND.
It is ideal for:
- SEND emotional regulation
- outdoor learning reflection
- child voice
- nurture groups
- SEMH support
- autism and ADHD support
- behaviour reflection
- wellbeing activities
- restorative conversations
- EYFS, KS1 and KS2 support
It gives children a calm, gentle way to reflect without shame, blame or pressure. Make a start, and have access to thousands of outdoor resources. Take a 60-day free trial.
What is a Feelings Reflection Sheet?
A Feelings Reflection Sheet is a simple tool that helps children reflect on their emotions, body signals, choices, needs and support strategies.
It can be used after:
- an outdoor learning session
- a difficult moment
- a transition
- a sensory overload
- a conflict
- a nurture group activity
- a regulation break
- a calm wellbeing session
The aim is not to make children feel they have done something wrong.
The aim is to help them understand their feelings and learn what helps them feel safe, calm and ready to try again. Try these One Page Profiles to support children’s needs outdoors.
Why Use a Feelings Reflection Sheet Outdoors?
Outdoor learning can help children reflect in a calmer and more natural way.
Some children find it easier to talk while walking.
Some children regulate better in fresh air.
Some children need movement before they can explain how they feel.
Some children communicate through drawing, pointing, symbols or body language rather than long conversations.
A feelings reflection sheet can help adults capture what the child is trying to communicate.
It helps children notice:
- what they felt
- where they felt it in their body
- what helped
- what felt difficult
- what they might need next time
- how outdoor learning affected their mood or regulation
New to Feelings Reflection? Start Here
If reflection feels overwhelming, keep it small.
You do not need a long conversation or lots of written answers. Start with one simple question.
Try asking:
- How did your body feel?
- What helped you feel calmer?
- What do you need next time?
The aim is not perfect answers.
The aim is emotional awareness, communication and support.
Try This Tomorrow
If you only do one thing, try a simple feelings check-in after outdoor learning.
Ask the child to choose one feeling word, picture, colour or symbol to show how they felt outside.
Time: 2–5 minutes
Prep: Very low
Best for: emotional regulation, child voice, SEND support and wellbeing
This is a small starting point. The full Feelings Reflection Sheet gives children and adults a clearer structure to reflect together.
How Can a Feelings Reflection Sheet Support SEND?
Children with SEND may need extra support to understand and communicate their emotions.
A feelings reflection sheet can help by making emotions more visual, concrete and manageable. It gives children a way to show adults what is happening inside, especially when words are difficult.
It can support:
- emotional regulation
- co-regulation
- sensory awareness
- communication
- behaviour support
- nurture provision
- restorative conversations
- self-awareness
- confidence
- transition support
It can also help adults spot patterns, such as which environments, activities or transitions feel difficult for the child. Use these emotion cards to help you support this area outdoors.
Looking for some SEND interventions that are outdoors? Head to the SEND Outdoor Hub.
Supporting Children Without Shame
Reflection should never feel like a punishment.
Many children who struggle with behaviour or emotions are already feeling overwhelmed, anxious or misunderstood. A reflection sheet should help them feel heard, not judged.
This resource is designed to support calm conversations such as:
“What happened?”
“How did it feel?”
“What helped?”
“What could we try next time?”
This helps children build emotional understanding while keeping dignity and trust at the centre.
Who is the Feelings Reflection Sheet For?
This resource is ideal for:
- children with SEND
- autistic children
- children with ADHD
- children with SEMH needs
- children with anxiety
- children with sensory processing needs
- children in nurture groups
- children who struggle with transitions
- children who find emotional language difficult
- children who need support after dysregulation
- children who benefit from outdoor regulation
It can be used in mainstream schools, nurseries, SEND settings, special schools, nurture groups, childminding settings and outdoor learning sessions. Looking for some SEND interventions that are outdoors? Head to the SEND Outdoor Hub.
Make a start, and have access to thousands of outdoor resources. Take a 60-day free trial.
Ways Children Can Use the Feelings Reflection Sheet
Children do not need to write long sentences to use this resource.
They might respond through:
- drawing
- colouring
- circling a feeling
- choosing a symbol
- pointing
- mark-making
- using a communication aid
- dictating to an adult
- using one word
- using body language
- choosing from picture prompts
This makes the resource more accessible for a range of children and communication needs.
Outdoor Learning, Feelings and Regulation
Outdoor learning can be a powerful way to support children’s emotional wellbeing.
Nature, movement, fresh air and sensory experiences can help children feel calmer and more connected. A feelings reflection sheet helps children notice this link and begin to understand what supports their own regulation.
Over time, children may begin to recognise:
“I feel calmer after being outside.”
“I need space when I am overwhelmed.”
“I like walking when I talk.”
“I feel better when I can move first.”
“I need a quiet place before I can explain.”
These are important steps towards self-awareness and emotional regulation.
Make a start, and have access to thousands of outdoor resources. Take a 60-day free trial.
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Download the Feelings Reflection Sheet
If you want a simple way to support children with emotions, regulation and reflection, the Feelings Reflection Sheet is a brilliant place to start.
It helps children share how they feel, what happened, what helped and what they may need next time — in a calm, accessible and child-centred way.
Join The Muddy Puddle Teacher Club today and download the resource as part of your 60-day free trial.
FAQs
What is a feelings reflection sheet?
A feelings reflection sheet is a simple tool that helps children think about their emotions, what happened, how their body felt and what support might help next time.
How can a feelings reflection sheet support SEND?
A feelings reflection sheet can support children with SEND by making emotions more visual and easier to communicate. It can help children share feelings through words, pictures, symbols, drawing, pointing or adult-supported reflection.
Can this be used after outdoor learning?
Yes. It can be used after outdoor learning to help children reflect on how they felt outside, what helped them regulate and what they enjoyed or found difficult.
Is a feelings reflection sheet good for emotional regulation?
Yes. It can help children build emotional awareness, notice body signals and identify calming strategies. This supports emotional regulation and co-regulation over time.
Can non-verbal children use this resource?
Yes. Children can use symbols, pictures, pointing, eye gaze, colour, gesture, drawing, adult observation or communication aids. They do not need to write or speak to take part.
Looking for some SEND interventions that are outdoors? Head to the SEND Outdoor Hub.
Can this be used in nurture groups?
Yes. It is ideal for nurture groups, SEND interventions, SEMH support, wellbeing sessions, restorative conversations and outdoor regulation work.
Should this be used as a punishment?
No. A feelings reflection sheet should be used calmly and supportively. It should help the child feel understood, not blamed or shamed.
Make a start, and have access to thousands of outdoor resources. Take a 60-day free trial.
